The
roots of the customary bridal shower originated
in Holland. If a Dutch bride was unfortunate
enough enough to have her father not approve of
her choice in husbands, he would not offer a
dowry. Her friends would then "shower"
her with gifts so she could still be married to
her groom., without the help of her father.
The
families of the Dutch bride and groom host a
party before the day of the wedding vows.
Traditionally, the couple sit on a throne,
beneath the pines, as their guests come to bless
them and wish them happiness.
Dutch
wedding receptions are famous for serving heavy
foods. Two traditional items served at a
marriage celebration in Holland are sweetmeats
called, "bridal sugar" and spiced wine
known as "bride's tears."
After
a Dutch wedding, newlyweds in Holland might
plant lilies-of-the-valley around their house.
This tradition symbolizes "the return of
happiness" and the couple can then
celebrate and renew their love with each
blooming season.
